To all the girls out there who misinterpret love and what it means to be in a relationship..
((Baby, this is not 4u ok and has nothing to do with u.. i love u SO SO SO much)) ;p
xxx;*
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Could not have said it better ...
HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN:
---------------------------------------------------------------*If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
*If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
*Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
*Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
*Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
*Slower is better.
*Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
*If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".
* A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
*Don't settle.
*If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
*Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
(You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.)
*The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
*Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
(He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?)
*Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
*Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
*If something bothers you, speak up.
*Never let a man know everything.
(He will use it against you later.)
*You cannot change a man's behaviour.
(Change comes from within.)
*Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.
*Do not make him into a quasi-god.
(He is a man, nothing more nothing less.)
*Never let a man define who you are.
*Never borrow someone else's man.
(If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.)
*A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
*All men are NOT dogs.
*You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
*You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
*You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
*Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
*Never move into his mother's house.
*Never co-sign for a man.
*Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
*Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
-Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... -
>>You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices,
and another woman prepare.<<
"They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them." <--- so true!!
Advice from Angel:
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->Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful...
DrPhill: "You should know that you're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one."
*Ladies take care of your own hearts....
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you are right! i agree very much
ReplyDeleteI love you and I miss you so much:(
ReplyDeleteand i agree with each statement of the above;**
Kuwait:)
ReplyDeletethnx <3
Cupid;*
ReplyDeletei love u more babe.. and i miss u m0re!
i swear u have no idea ;(
im glad u agree ;p
xxx;*
Oh my god that was so touching I just saw it :(
ReplyDeletethanks for this post it really makes me think :)
and i agree with everything and most of all the last quote "They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them."
:)
CuteandCuddly:
ReplyDeleteThanxx babe ;)
it's good u're thinking, sometimes we don't see the whol picture..
i agree with that quote as well..it's so true:)
xxx;*
7beebty I dont mind AT ALL mn 9ijich, and the fact that you were touched with my rambling just puts a smile on my face :D
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with everything that is written, AND you are so adorable about what you said to your baby ;p ana chithi whenever I wanna write something that doesnt apply to me lazem I apologize to the hubby ;p
love you beautiful ;**
love;**
ReplyDeletehahaha my sweetheart! i luv ur rambling!;p
it came to me as an email, so i decided why not post it? so i did ;p
yaa we have to apologize must be polite right?;)
LOVE u and plz don't stop blogging <3
xxx;*
oh and u like my new layout?? ;P
ReplyDeleteI loooove the new layout, ma3any not a big fan of pink bs I am loving this ;**
ReplyDeleteand yeah lazem we the whole polite act ;p I can say that without apologizing since its not on my blog lool ;p
babe knt bagolich, if you ever need ANYTHING email me, live.love.28@gmail.com ;**
7abeeebt thnxxx i sure will ;)
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