For All The Women Out There ;*

Dedicated to love;** ( i knw u might not have anything to do with this, but this is 4u becuz i was so touched by ur lovely Random;** post which i loved ;p hope u dnt mind babe;* )

To all the girls out there who misinterpret love and what it means to be in a relationship..

((Baby, this is not 4u ok and has nothing to do with u.. i love u SO SO SO much)) ;p

xxx;*
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Could not have said it better ...

HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN:

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*If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

*If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

*Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.

*Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

*Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

*Slower is better.

*Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

*If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".

* A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

*Don't settle.

*If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

*Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
(You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.)

*The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

*Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
(He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?)

*Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

*Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

*If something bothers you, speak up.

*Never let a man know everything.
(He will use it against you later.)

*You cannot change a man's behaviour.
(Change comes from within.)

*Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.

*Do not make him into a quasi-god.
(He is a man, nothing more nothing less.)

*Never let a man define who you are.

*Never borrow someone else's man.
(If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.)

*A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

*All men are NOT dogs.

*You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.

*You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

*You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

*Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

*Never move into his mother's house.

*Never co-sign for a man.

*Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

*Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

-Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... -

>>You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices,

and another woman prepare.<<


"They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them." <--- so true!!


Advice from Angel:
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->Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful...

DrPhill: "You should know that you're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one."


*Ladies take care of your own hearts....
<3>
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